tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19155696767380550482024-02-06T20:32:15.382-08:00我的流金岁月echo 的生活故事我的流金岁月http://www.blogger.com/profile/02040940295082066865noreply@blogger.comBlogger180125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915569676738055048.post-43245332972543097892012-12-27T22:19:00.000-08:002012-12-28T17:55:26.534-08:00教育审思(一)美里朋友的故事到砂拉越跟好些朋友谈起,他们告诉我,这里的华裔家庭,如果你的孩子三年级还没上补习班,简直是异数。我一直以为西马补习风气很盛,但最近三次来砂拉越,感觉起来这里的补习风气好像更盛。没有科学数据,就是个人在西马各地跟各地家长聊天时所得的大概数据。<br />
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对我来说,教育应该是学校老师的责任,如果孩子无法在学校把应该学的知识学会,我们要问的是:<br />
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1) 教育部的课程设计有问题吗?为什么会设计到学生在学校无法完全吸收?需要额外补习才能跟上?<br />
2)是老师的问题吗?是因为学校老师教不好,所以学生需要额外补习才追得上?<br />
3)是学生的问题吗?学生的资质有问题,无法吸收,所以需要额外补习才追得上?<br />
4)是家长的问题吗?家长认为分数少过九十就是差,排名五名之外就丢人,所以都用补习来让孩子成绩都过九十排名都在五名之内?<br />
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基本上,我认同有些孩子的吸收能力比较差,需要额外补助,但这样的学生应该不会超过百份之二十才对,我想如果这个数字超过某个百分比,就表示课程设计出了问题。是太难?还是孩子们的学习方式改变了?还是数码产品让孩子的学习能力下降?还是师资出了问题?<br />
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吸收能力差的孩子,照理说,学校应该要额外处理,如果只是单纯吸收比较慢,就另外安排助理或安排其他同学帮助他,如果是学习障碍就应该让他接受专业的帮助。<br />
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可是你看看身边的例子,一般补习的学子百分比是多少?有多少其实不需要补习的孩子每天花几个小时在正课之外学才艺和补习的?<br />
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我在美里认识的 JL在车上就跟我谈到自己的经历,她自称是补习教育下的受害者。是从小学开始补习的例子,自小很乖的她让家人安排大量的补习,从来没有反抗,一路补到中学去,成绩一直名列前茅,她一直自觉是会读书的孩子。<br />
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中学之后JL到纽西兰去读预科,那是第一段没有补习老师帮助的学习时光,她感觉失去了支柱,也第一次感觉到自己是个一直依靠外力帮助才能学习的人,她发现自己没有自学能力!她觉得无助,对她来说这是一段黑暗的学习阶段,花了很多时间去摸索,一年多之后才慢慢适应。<br />
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她觉得自己跟那些纽西兰的同学不一样,纽西兰的同学非常乐于学习,而且非常清楚知道自己学习的热忱在哪里。而她读了这么多年书,除了把考试考好,她不知道自己学习的目的,有时她甚至感觉那么努力读书是为了要让家人开心,因为她知道自己考得好时,家人都非常高兴。她用自己的好成绩来讨好家人。她一直不觉得这有什么问题,直到她在纽西兰求学为止,她开始思考自己的学习过程是不是哪里出了什么差错。<br />
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后来她考上药剂师科系,会选这系不是因为她从小就对药剂师这职业有憧憬,而是考的成绩能够申请这科系。她说:这是一般父母的想法:你既然考到这样的成绩,当然是申请你的成绩可以申请的最好的科系。而所谓最好的科系,就是医科/工程系/药剂系/法律系。。。等等听起来可以光宗耀祖的科系。<br />
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后来读着读着,越读越找不到方向,最后她决定停学半年休学。当时她开始怀疑自己的选择。她家人对她也没有办法。半年后她再振作,转系<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 17px;">选读了理科和教育。大学毕业后继续在纽西兰师训学院修读两年幼教。</span><br />
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她选修教育这一科让人有点大跌眼镜,因为对国内某些家长来说,教育系是那些成绩普通的学生才念的,大家会认为成绩考得不坏的她为什么要去拿这科系呢?这样的想法当然是偏颇,她就因为自己幼年时的学习经验,而觉得教育应该不是这样的,自己经历的学习过程一定有什么地方出了错,所以坚持除了修理科之外也选修教育这一科。<br />
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JL毕业后,回乡工作,她看到身边很多孩子花大量的时间补习,这些孩子像她之前一样机械的学习,而不是对学习有热忱的方式,他觉得心疼,于是她想了又想,想自己可以为这样的学习环境做些什么?时日过去,她慢慢的摸索,遇见了一些人,时机成熟时她决定为这个地方的孩子们做一些什么,于是她准备好开一家快乐的学习中心 <a href="https://www.facebook.com/LoveFunKids?fref=ts">love fun kids</a>。<br />
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这家中心明年三月会开张。美里家乡的朋友有福了。<br />
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<br />我的流金岁月http://www.blogger.com/profile/02040940295082066865noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915569676738055048.post-8853138059839868962012-12-27T02:49:00.004-08:002012-12-27T03:03:48.039-08:00砂拉越城市之二:美里<div class="separator" style="clear: both; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; text-align: left;">
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">这座山是我这一生爬过的最难爬的山,必需从mulu caves 乘船两个小时,然后走三个小时多才到休息的地方,一路上水蛭很多,让人心惊胆跳。第二天早上上山,一路45度往上,完全没能休息。四个小时一路到顶,体力何止是透支。</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">在她家住了三几天,间中演讲,其他时间就是在写稿。呵,假日太忙,稿一篇一篇累积的,只能埋头苦写。</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">她回去之后再打电话给玉萍说要约我和孩子们明天中午吃个午餐。我欣然确定午餐约会。后来我见到她之后说,如果有人见到我们,不知道会不会以为我之前就认识她,所以把奖判给她。这样的事情还真的很难说明的。</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">她带我们到附近靠海的俱乐部吃午餐,我很喜欢这里的风景和餐厅,非常有情调呵。</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">另一个我觉得值得提的是 Jess 老师,我也在玉萍家见到她,非常年轻美丽的女子。她的故事我打算写出来,下一篇吧。</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">那天我演讲完毕,晚餐前我跟孩子们去购物中心闲逛,砂拉越的天黑得早,我们三母子吃了点食物,然后在广场内随便逛逛,接到电话说 Jess 会来接我们,于是就到外去等她。结果阿雍不小心跌倒,裤子脏得不得了。我看看手表,还有十五分钟才到跟 Jess 说好的时间,于是拉起阿雍,唤阿为紧跟,一路跑进购物中心,看了几个柜台,终于选好了阿雍的裤子,付钱,再跑出来,刚刚好,Jess 的电话来,说她快到了。</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">娇小的她开车一辆大车,还一直道歉说对不起对不起,她的车让妈妈开出去了,只能开妈妈得这辆车出来。很豪华的车,阿为喜欢得不得了。车上Jess说起她成长的故事,我说她应该写出来,她说也是,但我想还是我先写吧。</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我很喜欢这个晚上,早暗的天,几位朋友,热腾腾的菜,还有一桌子的小孩。回想起,这是一个温暖的夜晚啊。</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">这天晚上晚餐的陪客除了玉萍和他先生,jess,还有我在面书常聊天的面友惠婉。听说是有名的菜馆。菜是不错下噢。</span><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">几乎每一餐在外吃的都有这道!</span></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">这道倒普通。</span></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">有点像北京鸭做法的鸡肉。</span></td></tr>
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<br />我的流金岁月http://www.blogger.com/profile/02040940295082066865noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915569676738055048.post-11994057933939169322012-12-25T17:46:00.000-08:002012-12-25T17:46:23.701-08:002010无厘头自助旅行之:第六天之居銮(HIDE)<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjsnDy_qkZfSJUvtbVMLIdbmvnKKgw2v1b2gGBI0vid5QRZKb8_v9c82hwDrgTLHYXs1xfMyziJAoWzqHBbNYVK3Hyc_GItzNtQbgchtuqz9Q5IxWM1VUdCc7VozvONhKbEh-8U05OYA2w/s1600/ah+yong.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5518971634854650882" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjsnDy_qkZfSJUvtbVMLIdbmvnKKgw2v1b2gGBI0vid5QRZKb8_v9c82hwDrgTLHYXs1xfMyziJAoWzqHBbNYVK3Hyc_GItzNtQbgchtuqz9Q5IxWM1VUdCc7VozvONhKbEh-8U05OYA2w/s320/ah+yong.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 320px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 224px;" /></a><br />
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话说原定计划是我带着两个孩子乘火车回居銮,然后姐姐姐夫开车把妹妹载回居銮。但人算不如妹妹算,她决定由她带着两个孩子乘火车,我跟着姐姐姐夫回居銮。也好,很久没有单身了,每次到哪里都是三人行,要不然就四人行,换下口味吧。<br />
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于是这天早上就和姐姐把妹妹和为雍两兄弟送上火车,看着她们走下月台,挥挥手,很不习惯的跟着姐姐去取车,回去载姐夫,然后往南走。<br />
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路上停下吃早餐,很不习惯下车就关门的动作,老是回头看看,是否要服侍小孩下车,跟姐姐说,每次下车都要花三两分钟才能举步走,快要忘记下车两秒就可以举步走的滋味。。。<br />
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把相机给了妹妹,沿路没得拍。这些是妹妹拍的:<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">飞越南中国海的阿雍,一直要点食物。之前太忙没想到上网订食物,结果只剩下一份,两人分享。下机之后再吃吧。</span></div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">两兄弟。</span></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">阿雍跟朋友的女儿看着初生的小鸡,一直想带回家养。</span></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">长屋上生活的妇女。</span></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">去到哪里都带着《地理地图集》的阿为,在小桥上观河下的鱼时,书掉到河边的草丛中,几个</span><span style="font-family: 宋体;">C9<span lang="ZH-CN">研究一会,断定要牺牲这本书了,后来其中一人去跟屋里跟一男子求助,他出来一看,就往下走两步弯腰把书拾上来了。惭愧呵。</span></span></span></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">路上遇到的村民,说这是他种的红毛丹,然后爬上树,采给我们吃。</span></td></tr>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">这是年终假期第三个星期的星期二,之前的两个星期我们都在各地奔驰,回居銮探望父母是假期开始必定要做的事情,也到新加坡跟孩子们的玩伴玩了四天三夜,婆婆生日是每年的大事,一定得到吉隆坡去祝贺,两场《女人与小孩》新书发表会在新山和怡保,必需抽空去主讲,临时挤出两天半时间去参与的黄德先生绿色行,更是一定得参与之事。</span><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">在旁陪玩的我看着新加坡的天空。</span></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">带朋友的女儿去上课程,然后带阿雍去吃面。</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">后来下很大的雨,我们四人去买了雨伞,回家。</span></td></tr>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">黄德先生发起的绿色行,我带着两个孩子去参与三天两夜。第一天去时大伙儿已经走完全程,于是就到文冬去留宿朋友家,第二天走了一天,第三天就去怡保演讲,之后就回吉隆坡婆婆的生日聚会,星期天,再度跟两个孩子走到街头去,捍卫我们不要稀土厂的立场。</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">第一天走完之后,开车回吉隆坡,走过云顶山脚,顺道上山乘坐缆车,遇到带着两个孩子的朋友,一起上山,在山上晃晃,又下山来。</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">绿色行之后,偶遇另外五个绿衣人,一共八位绿衣人一起去云顶乘坐缆车,引起旁人侧目。</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">昨晚十二点洗完澡,睡了五个小时,没到六点就醒来了。走出门外,大家都还在睡,于是只好回房,看台湾作家王文华的书,看到八点,一本书给我看完了,本来要等飞机看的,结果就这样看完了。</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">看完书出来,原来表姐以为我没有睡醒,不敢吵我,她也六点多醒来,等到现在。这是严重的沟通问题。</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我跟表姐说要去附近的菜市场吃早餐,记得十二年前我出《单身俱乐部》时,来槟城演讲,也住表姐家。当时是跟另一个在北马非常有名气的专栏作者足皮对谈一个爱情课题,我还记得是在爱心大厦,当时好几百人。都是来看足皮的,我当时是沾光不少。后来出第二本书时再来一次槟城,是在KOMTAR礼堂演讲。</span><span style="font: normal normal normal 13px/normal 'Lucida Grande';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">咦,话说远了。当时我住表姐家,表姐早上带我到菜市场吃早餐,我印象深刻,我觉得这真是个淳朴的地方啊。整个景观就是好像走回了七十年代。我深深着迷。</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">表姐开车载我转了几个弯,就到菜市场了。我选吃这个:鱼头面线。不错吃。</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: STSong;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">自从结婚之后,我就不外出演讲。理由不外是:我在南部,不方便外出演讲,已经隐居在村落的我,也没有什么好跟大家分享的。</span></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">相隔九年,这次接受去槟城的演讲,讲的讲题完全跟之前的爱情/两性关系完全不一样,这是我第一场以育儿为题的讲座。</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">听说这是槟城难得的书展,大部分书展是在吉隆坡举办,远在北部的槟城比较被忽略吧。</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">一个下午接到朋友的电话,他说星期四要顺路来拜访我。我说不行,我要去槟城。问他去哪里为什么会顺路到我家附近,他说出差到我家附近的旅游胜地,星期四回吉隆坡顺路北上会经过我家。我想,呵,怎么就这么巧?我问他车子满人吗?他说就他一人,我问我可以搭顺风车吗?他说好啊。</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">于是我跟住飞机场附近的弟弟说好,朋友载我进利来收费站,他接力从收费站送我到飞机场。</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">当天下午朋友爱丽丝栽我到飞机场的麦记,朋友如约到飞机场的麦记接我。把我送到弟弟利来收费站,跟我和弟弟一起吃了个晚餐,然后弟弟把是送到机场去,到了机场,就剩我一人了。</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我CHECK IN之后就在候机室开了电脑,碰上一个朋友,跟朋友聊会天,就上机了。回想起来,这个时候的我很忙,需要做很多决定,而且很多事情需要再三考量,心情有点低落。看,我在飞机上拍的照片,都好像感染了我的心情。</span></div>
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我的流金岁月http://www.blogger.com/profile/02040940295082066865noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915569676738055048.post-60894296563119829472011-04-20T05:16:00.000-07:002011-04-20T05:16:46.428-07:00BESTA 电脑辞典试用(二)笔顺<!--StartFragment--> <br />
<div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">二年</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">级</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的阿</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">为</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">非常喜</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">欢</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">BESTA</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">电脑词</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">典里面的笔</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">顺</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">功能</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">给</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">他自己玩了两天,之后他只要拿到</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">电脑词</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">典就开</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">这</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">个功能来玩。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">在一年</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">级</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">和二年</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">级</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">华</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">文</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">测验</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; 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mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">时</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我看阿</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">为</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">写一些字,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">觉</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">得笔</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">顺</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">很奇怪,跟他指出,他把笔</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">顺</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">作</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">业</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">本拿</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">给</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我看,原来他写的笔</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">顺</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">是</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">对</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的,几次之后我就不在笔</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">顺这</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">一</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">块</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">去自取其辱了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">所以当阿</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">为</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">开始玩</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">电脑</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">辞典的笔</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">顺时</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,我很放任他,他就一再的找很多他有</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">兴</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">趣的字来学写。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">老</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">实说</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,阿</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">为</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的笔</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">顺</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">其</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">实</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">很强,不需要</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">这</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">个功能来加</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">强</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">这</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">功能只能加</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">强</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">他</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">对</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">没学</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">过</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的生字有更多的涉</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">猎</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">。但</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">对</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">某些笔</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">顺</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">差的孩子,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">这</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">个功能</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">应该能加强对笔顺的认知</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">。有</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">妈妈</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">告</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">诉</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我孩子写字</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">时</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,笔</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">顺</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的正确与否比写得是否美</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">观</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">重要得多,开始</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">对</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; 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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">最近阿</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">为</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">迷上繁体字,于是玩</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">电</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: "MS 明朝"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">子</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">辞典的笔顺功能时开始玩繁体字,他很认真的看那些他在绘本上看到的繁体字,一次又一次的示范,直到能够模拟得对。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 宋体;">电脑辞典是这样教的:把要学的字先示范一遍,一,二,三,四,五。。。每一个步骤都伴随着声音,让学习者清楚的看到笔划的先后。然后第二部分就开始让学习者自己模拟,以便加深印象。讲起来很长,还是用看的比较清楚。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">最近面子书的朋友们对我放上去阿为的画中的繁体字有着莫大的兴趣,他们对阿为能写那么多繁体字感到惊讶,纷纷问我是否是我教的?我说不是,是阿为自学的。后来才想到,前阵子他一直在玩</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">BESTA</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;">的电脑辞典中的笔顺功能,也是他能写很多繁体字的原因之一。以此类推,这个功能应该能对一般小学生在认字和学写字方面有一定的帮助。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><!--EndFragment-->我的流金岁月http://www.blogger.com/profile/02040940295082066865noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915569676738055048.post-52699737292910483872011-02-07T05:25:00.000-08:002011-02-07T05:25:28.121-08:00《BESTA》初体验一接到BESTA电脑辞典网站负责人JACK邀我写电脑辞典的电邮,是2010年的最后一天。<br />
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JACK问我是否愿意帮这牌子的电脑辞典写<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #7f6000;"><a href="http://youjie.world.edoors.com/CJIQ9SPdP3FM">开箱文</a>,</span>我到网上去找了很多资料来看到底这个牌子是哪个牌子。我看到张栋梁,他是BESTA的代言人,嗯,原来是这个牌子。</span>我看着电邮想了很久才回信问了好几个问题,其中一个是:<br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial; line-height: 17px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #351c75;"><span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial; line-height: 17px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #351c75;">我写任何评语都行吗?我任何内心的想法都可以写吗?</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial; line-height: 17px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #351c75;"><br style="line-height: 17px;" />例如,我可以告诉大家我其实觉得孩子查字典是训练他耐性的好方法吗?或我能坦白的说出我对这产品的观感,就算是我觉得不好的部分吗</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial; line-height: 17px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #351c75;">?</span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial; line-height: 17px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #351c75;"><br />
</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 17px;">这对我很重要,我只写我的真实的想法,我不是代言人,写开箱文严格说起来不是打广告,而是写产品使用的经验,要写就写我心里想的而不是对产品歌功颂德。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 17px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 17px;">我冒着JACK不回我信的险把邮件送出。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 17px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 17px;">没想到JACK只回我五个字:可以,没问题。之后就再来回几封电邮确定了几个细节。确定接受这份任务的那天是八号。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 17px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 17px;">我的初衷是想看看电脑辞典对孩子的学习有什么好处,所以一直往这个方向构思我的开箱文。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 17px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 17px;">没想到一月九号我因为苦思一个问题想不开,下午时分去宏愿开放大学报读了心理学系。报了名出来才想到电脑辞典对我的学业应该有好处,因为心理学这一科,很多专业名词,电脑辞典刚好能用上。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 17px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 17px;">算起来时机刚刚好呢。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 17px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 17px;">我收到电脑辞典是一月二十二号,星期六,一月二十三号是我第一天上课。这样的巧合预示着什么?今年应该是很好的一年。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 17px;"><br />
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</span></span></div>我的流金岁月http://www.blogger.com/profile/02040940295082066865noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915569676738055048.post-20908358499932172022011-01-19T22:29:00.001-08:002011-01-19T22:29:50.108-08:00面子書之亞斯伯格181110 TO 180111<h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">去年九月阿为确诊为亚斯伯格之后,我就一直担心他这样的孩子上小<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>学会遇到什么事。明天是他最后一天上学了,回想这一年他上学的日<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>子出奇的顺利,非常感恩。我想这应该有几个原因。一,他一直在进<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>步。二,这个学校的老师很有爱心和耐心。第三,除了两次被打(一<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>次是马来文听写错一题,一次是没带体育衣服)之外,他没有再被打<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>过。第四,他班上很多对他很好的同学。今晚要写一封信,让他明天<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>拿去学校给他的校长和老师。</span></span></h6><form action="http://www.facebook.com/ajax/ufi/modify.php" class="commentable_item autoexpand_mode" method="post" rel="async" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/172647306096314" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Thu, 18 Nov 2010 03:13:56 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Thursday, 18 November 2010 at 19:13"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">18 November 2010 at 19:13</span></abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">要帶阿雍去學校參加阿為一年級的畢業典禮。。。。</span></span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Thu, 18 Nov 2010 16:06:40 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Friday, 19 November 2010 at 08:06"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/169070083116381" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">19 November 2010 at 08:06</a><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">阿为的进展:越来越像普通小孩。<br />
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好处:他亚斯伯格的表现少了很多,几乎不见。<br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span>亚斯伯格常常被鉴定为过动症。我身边一个朋友的孩子,被鉴定为过</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>动症,这两年来朋友用完所有专家和书上说的对付过动症的方法来对</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>待孩子,结果还是没有改善。后来我见了她,看到她的孩子,听她说</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>孩子的情况,我暗暗吃惊,这不是亚斯伯格吗?我把我的疑虑告诉她</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>,请她去看几本书。我离开她的城市后接到她的短讯,她说:看完《</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>星星小王子》我的心五味陈杂,那是一种什么样的感觉呵。所有之前</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>困惑的部分清晰起来,原来我搞错方向了---那不是什么过动症,</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>那不就是亚斯伯格吗? 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這是一個過動兒的畫作,因為他的母親把他的作品丟進了垃圾桶,被</span><wbr></wbr></span><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">我撿了回來,才有機會進一步的認識什麼是過動兒。 過動兒不是注意力不集中嗎?</span></div></div></div></div><div class="UIImageBlock clearfix" style="display: block; zoom: 1;"><i class="UIImageBlock_Image UIImageBlock_ICON_Image img sp_dxm2ym sx_d4e80c" style="background-image: url(http://b.static.ak.fbcdn.net/rsrc.php/zA/r/dwEJFTlrnaC.png); background-position: 0px -120px; background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; display: block; float: left; height: 15px; margin-right: 5px; width: 16px;"></i><div class="UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_ICON_Content" style="display: table-cell; padding-top: 1px; vertical-align: top; width: 10000px;"><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/108864455853763" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Mon, 06 Dec 2010 15:06:39 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Tuesday, 07 December 2010 at 07:06"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">07 December 2010 at 07:06</span></abbr></a></span><span class="UIActionLinks UIActionLinks_bottom" data-ft="{"type":"action"}" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
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<span>伦敦大学的帕梅拉·希顿·戈德史密斯指出自闭症患者有更好的音乐</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>音高识别力。<br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><div class="text_exposed_root text_exposed" id="id_4d37b882d8ae46b21753511" style="display: inline;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">上個星期帶阿為去看特殊兒童的醫生,聊起我幫阿為戒麵粉的事情。<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>醫生說:是有一群相信麵粉會影響特殊孩子的人在做這方面的研究,<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>但醫學界還不承認這樣的看法,因為沒有確實的證據證明。我告訴他<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>孩子戒麵粉之後的變化,他搖搖頭說:你怎麼證明他是因為戒麵粉而<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>進步?他可能是因為長大而進步的。我無言。很多醫生都這樣說。<br />
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早上我跟一個糕點小販買糕點,問起某樣糕點是用什麼做的,他說是<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>米的粉。我問有沒有麵粉?他說:沒有,沒有麵粉。我看著那個糕點<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>很懷疑,因為太像麵粉了。但我選擇相信老闆。<br />
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剛剛阿為五點吃完糕點,鋼琴老師來,他一直無法坐定學鋼琴,而且<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>一直想說話。老師問我他今天怎麼了。我想起那個可疑的糕點。<br />
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<span>二十分钟之后他要我抱,然后遇见那个小女孩,他说:我想跟她道歉</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>了。我把他抱向前,他跟那小孩说:对不起,我不应该推你,我下次</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>不会这样做了。<br />
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<span>我没有要他这样说,我只是要他道歉而已,但他说了这长串。他真的</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>知道自己错了。刚才他不道歉是因为自己没有准备好。<br />
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<span>阿雍不是传统认定的乖小孩。但他的性格特质其实非常难能可贵,大</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>人愿意蹲下来听他说话,他就是乖小孩,大人不愿意,这就是性格顽</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>劣的小孩了。</span></span></div></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/121703137900669" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Sun, 09 Jan 2011 08:30:52 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Monday, 10 January 2011 at 00:30">10 January at 00:30</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #999999;"> · </span><a class="uiTooltip uiStreamPrivacy" href="http://www.facebook.com/echok#" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; position: relative; text-decoration: none;"><img alt="Privacy:" class="img" height="10" src="http://static.ak.fbcdn.net/rsrc.php/yJ/r/izQe4GX_lA2.gif" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px;" width="10" /></a><br />
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書送到差不多了,剩下的這些書,還是留等阿為和阿雍長大一點來尋<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>寶吧。(還有,<a data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=644963706" href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=644963706" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">Wong Yun Teng</a> ,我又找到兩本張大春的書了,嘿,你等著。<a data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=613162661" href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=613162661" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">Anna Tang</a> ,你的席慕容還沒有出來。)</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999; font-size: 11px;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/168249823220434" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Mon, 10 Jan 2011 04:53:27 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Monday, 10 January 2011 at 20:53">10 January at 20:53</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #999999; font-size: 11px;"> ·</span><br />
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阿雍說:有,老師說不用去上學了,下個星期才去。<br />
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看來阿雍不喜歡幼兒園的生活。。。</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999; font-size: 11px;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/173486126022499" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Mon, 10 Jan 2011 16:12:58 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Tuesday, 11 January 2011 at 08:12">11 January at 08:12</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #999999; font-size: 11px;"> · </span><a class="uiTooltip uiStreamPrivacy" href="http://www.facebook.com/echok#" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; font-size: 11px; position: relative; text-decoration: none;"><img alt="Privacy:" class="img" height="10" src="http://static.ak.fbcdn.net/rsrc.php/yJ/r/izQe4GX_lA2.gif" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px;" width="10" /></a><br />
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那十多本LAT到底在那個箱子啊!!</span>!</span></h6><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Tue, 11 Jan 2011 14:55:27 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Wednesday, 12 January 2011 at 06:55"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/170607466315734" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">12 January at 06:55</a></abbr></span></h6><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #999999;"><br />
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這媽媽想了很久才告訴我,應該是畫畫,他的畫不錯。我說那麼讓他<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>多畫,讓他去學畫啊。這媽媽說:可是獨中的課程很多,下午又要上<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>課外活動,他每天回來做完功課倒頭就睡了。<br />
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去年底,這媽媽又告訴我:他又留級了,要不要讓他讀第三年高一?<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>我建議讓孩子去上美術學院。<br />
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那天遇到這個媽媽,問起,她笑開來:在美術學院上班了,他開心極<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>了,很滿意和積極的開始他的新生活。<br />
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啊,那是一個放錯位置的孩子啊。</span></span></div></span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Tue, 11 Jan 2011 15:07:16 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Wednesday, 12 January 2011 at 07:07"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/182019185152579" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">12 <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">January at 07:07</span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
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<span>現在的建築物不是這樣建了,一般會推平整片地,然後再做,所以看</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>起來不那麼自然,少了那份雅緻的風味。</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/185220138162986" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Wed, 12 Jan 2011 02:59:21 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Wednesday, 12 January 2011 at 18:59">12 January at 18:59</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">這兩天人都在外,有點時間,看着在古來幼齡圖書館借出的兩本書,<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>幾乎每看幾段就有一段想跟大家分享的。好書呵好書。</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999; font-size: 11px;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/187541217940695" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Sat, 15 Jan 2011 22:25:43 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Sunday, 16 January 2011 at 14:25">16 January at 14:25</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 11px;"> · </span><a class="uiTooltip uiStreamPrivacy" href="http://www.facebook.com/echok#" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; font-size: 11px; position: relative; text-decoration: none;"><img alt="Privacy:" class="img" height="10" src="http://static.ak.fbcdn.net/rsrc.php/yJ/r/izQe4GX_lA2.gif" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px;" width="10" /></a><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span>孩子所感受到父母對他的愛,是支持他度過生命難關的力量。---</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>-洪蘭。</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/139106946149120" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Sat, 15 Jan 2011 22:28:12 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Sunday, 16 January 2011 at 14:28">16 January at 14:28</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><div class="text_exposed_root text_exposed" id="id_4d37b88985e853d78649296" style="display: inline;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span>今天早上,在吉隆坡,看到一個馬來老翁,拿着旅行袋走過一條車很</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>稀少的小路。走到路中間,他把旅行袋放下,一直拉褲子。可是拉了</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>一陣還是沒有拉上。我上前去幫他拉,好不容易拉上,我看見他尿了</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>褲子。我問他要去哪裡,他指著一個不近的車站,我就幫他拿旅行袋</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>,扶著他走去。<br />
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<span>路上,他停了三次來拉褲子,我幫他,手上沾了尿。我發現他着力在</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>我手上的力越來越多,看來是因為腳沒力了。走到車站,安頓他,請</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>一個在車站等車的男子照看他,我就走了。<br />
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<span>後來我離開時,車子走過車站,我看到他一個人孤零零的坐在那裡。</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>我不禁流淚。我父親也是他這個年紀呵,他的孩子們呢?知道父親這</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>個樣子,孩子心理一定很難過的呵。<br />
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<span>車子走了很遠,我才想到,其實我應該打電話給慈濟的朋友,請他們</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>拿件褲子去幫他換,然後安排他上車。我很粗心,希望下次遇到這樣</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>的事情能再貼心一點。</span></span></div></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Sun, 16 Jan 2011 03:49:15 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Sunday, 16 January 2011 at 19:49"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/122522934484264" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">16 January at 19:49</a><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span>下午去把上課的書拿回來了,都是英文書。已經八年沒有用英文答考</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>卷了。適應期想必很長。所以,去哪裡找時間來適應呢?嘿,減短每</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>天上網的時間不就得了?<br />
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<span>不過大家不要擔心,我啃到有趣的部分,會去找資料來跟大家分享的</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>。只是,聊天的時間真的要減短了。你們能理解的厚?</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/132778880120408" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Sun, 16 Jan 2011 04:30:23 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Sunday, 16 January 2011 at 20:30">16 January at 20:30</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">鼓勵比責罵有效,因為它從心裡改變孩子,西諺:「我們對孩子的看<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>法決定他的命運。」真的很對。天下沒有壞孩子,也沒有教不好的學<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>生,只要心中有愛,沒有喚不回來的。但願我們都能用欣賞的眼光去<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>看孩子,用更寬容的心去接納他們。<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-size: small;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">这是一个家长谈起日本和美国的教育:<br />
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在美国,孩子上学书包就是个摆设,里面顶多有一本课外书。教科书<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>和笔记本都在教室里,不能拿回家。课外作业少而又少,倒是其他的<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>名堂很多,例如科学博览会,读书会——让孩子们自己动手找事情做<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>。<br />
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我们觉得幼儿园教育在日本是很好的。春天看樱花,种地瓜,种牵牛<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>花,夏天捉虫子,到野外住帐篷,秋天大运动会,远足,冬天做打糕<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>,开新年会,滑雪,虽然年年如此,但孩子一年年长大,每一年都是<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>不一样的经历和体会。幼儿园的自然保育的教育观念在日常保育中得<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>到体现,也在孩子们性格和素质的形成中起到了不可低估的作用。</span></span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/145149718873359" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Sat, 08 Jan 2011 02:12:13 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Saturday, 08 January 2011 at 18:12">08 January at 18:12</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> · <a class="uiTooltip uiStreamPrivacy" href="http://www.facebook.com/echok#" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; position: relative; text-decoration: none;"><img alt="Privacy:" class="img" height="10" src="http://static.ak.fbcdn.net/rsrc.php/yJ/r/izQe4GX_lA2.gif" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; cursor: move;" width="10" /></a><br />
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</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">上個星期五,阿雍帶着媽媽心去上學,還是有哭。但至少已經沒有說<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>:《我想念媽媽》了。今天阿雍上學的時候非常配合,已經不需要我<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>安慰,路上我問他如果想念媽媽的時候,要怎麼辦,他把掛在脖子塞<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>在前袋的媽媽心給我看,說:我會拿媽媽心出來看,如果不想念媽媽<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>了,又放回袋子。<br />
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放學接他的時候,已經沒有苦着一張淚臉了,看到我來就笑得像一朵<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>花。老師說,有哭一點。<br />
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已經很好了。慶幸我沒有放任他哭,雖然很多人告訴我,讓他哭一下<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>就好,他慢慢會習慣。但我想看到媽媽一直和他努力克服對陌生環境<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>的恐懼的阿雍,會明白他不是獨自面對,媽媽有陪他一起。</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Mon, 17 Jan 2011 03:34:53 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Monday, 17 January 2011 at 19:34"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/122222464515042" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">Monday at 19:34</a><br />
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這兩個星期因為開始大掃除,沒有煮粥,早餐都買來解決。昨天晚上<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>阿雍突然說:媽媽,我要吃粥。阿為說:我也要。於是我今早就煮粥<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>。阿雍起身發現早餐是粥,很高興,開心的吃了上學去,心情好得不<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>得了。<br />
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阿為要外出的時候突然想起今天食堂有他喜歡吃的炒飯。我問:我去<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>買炒飯給你當點心好嗎?他搖搖頭,我問:那麼下課時送粥給你吃好<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>嗎?他點頭,然後就去上學了。<br />
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<h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-weight: normal;"><span class="UIActionLinks UIActionLinks_bottom" data-ft="{"type":"action"}" style="color: #999999;"><span class="UIActionLinks UIActionLinks_bottom" data-ft="{"type":"action"}" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-weight: normal;"><span class="messageBody" style="font-size: small; line-height: 14px;">跟阿雍一起看绘本,我讲他看图,图里是老鼠亚历山大在自己的房间<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>想事情。我讲完那一页要翻他不肯,问我:妈妈,你看亚历山大的房<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>间为什么没有AIR-COND?我啊了一声,他再仔细的观察,然<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>后告诉我结论:也没有风扇。我:嗯。。。他又问:他热的时候怎么<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>办?我:嗯。。。阿雍不放弃:他满头大汗的话怎么办?我:嗯。。<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>。。阿雍开始不耐烦了:妈妈!怎么办?!</span></span></span></span></span></span></h6><div class="mvm uiStreamAttachments clearfix" data-ft="{"type":"attach"}" style="display: block; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-top: 10px; zoom: 1;"><div class="UIImageBlock clearfix" style="display: block; zoom: 1;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-weight: normal;"><span class="UIActionLinks UIActionLinks_bottom" data-ft="{"type":"action"}" style="color: #999999;"><span class="UIActionLinks UIActionLinks_bottom" data-ft="{"type":"action"}" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-size: small; font-weight: normal;"><a class="uiPhotoThumb UIImageBlock_Image UIImageBlock_MED_Image" data-ft="{"type":"media"}" href="http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=455350478194&set=a.68708653194.72077.784843194&ref=nf" style="border-bottom-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-left-style: solid; border-left-width: 1px; border-right-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-right-style: solid; border-right-width: 1px; border-top-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-top-style: solid; border-top-width: 1px; color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; float: left; margin-right: 10px; text-decoration: none;" title="跟阿雍一起看绘本,我讲他看图,图里是老鼠亚历山大在自己的房间想事情。我讲完那一页要翻他不肯,问我:妈妈,你看亚历山大的房间为什么没有AIR-COND?我啊了一声,他再仔细的观察,然后告诉我结论:也没有风扇。我:嗯。。。他又问:他热的时候怎么办?我:嗯。。。阿雍不放弃:他满头大汗的话怎么办?我:嗯。。。。阿雍开始不耐烦了:妈妈!怎么办?!"><img class="img" height="81px" src="http://photos-a.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs927.snc4/74020_455350478194_784843194_5478589_427023_s.jpg" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; display: block; margin-bottom: 3px; margin-left: 3px; margin-right: 3px; margin-top: 3px;" width="121px" /></a></span></span></span></span></span><br />
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</span></h6><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="font-size: small; line-height: 14px;">那天下午阿雍跟我說:媽媽,我要吃KETUPAT。我說,啊?K<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>ETUPAT?阿雍,我們家沒有KETUPAT 。阿雍很堅持的說:可是我們家有KETUPAT。我蹲下來看著阿<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>雍的眼睛,認真的告訴他:阿雍,媽媽真的沒有買KETUPAT。<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>阿雍說:可是你有買。我說我什麼時候去買了?阿雍說:早上啊,你<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>早上去那輛車那裡買的。我說哪裡有。他說有。牽我的手去廚房指著<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>桌上的盒子:在那裡。我去打開來,就大笑起來。是粽子啦。是早上<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>我在賣糕點的流動小販那裡買回來的粽子啦。</span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Sun, 21 Nov 2010 04:48:34 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Sunday, 21 November 2010 at 20:48"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/163809383656528" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">21 November 2010 at 20:48</a><br />
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阿雍想了想说:女人。因为她有奶。<br />
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阿雍没有学修辞学</span>。</span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/100321023375459" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Fri, 07 Jan 2011 20:01:11 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Saturday, 08 January 2011 at 12:01">08 January at 12:01</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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我问:我的孩子有爬吗?<br />
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小女孩:没有,是XXX,XXX,XXXX和XXX。<br />
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<span>忙着洗橱柜内的东西的我:叫他们的妈妈来管。。。我哪有力气管这</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>么多呵。。<br />
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<span>老实说,几乎每个来我家的孩子都被我训过的。这种爬我家的墙去隔</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>壁的事情我都不知训过多少遍了,那些孩子还是照爬不误。。哎呦呦</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>。</span></span></div></span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/171031459604827" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Tue, 04 Jan 2011 00:53:33 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Tuesday, 04 January 2011 at 16:53">04 January at 16:53</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><br />
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这个朋友,在我第一本书上出现的频率很很高。我们唤他为:阿张。<br />
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谢谢在我人生中陪我这么一段的朋友,谢谢因他而有的感动和喜悦。</span></span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/135684119825795" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Tue, 04 Jan 2011 05:12:46 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Tuesday, 04 January 2011 at 21:12">04 January at 21:12</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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<span>《我的小孩今年就读华小2年纪,学校竟然安排了一位马来老师来教</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>马来文。魏家祥不是已宣佈,有关华小一、二年级国语科必须由拥有</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>双语资格教师教导的吗?唉!问题还是没解决。我该做些什么 ?去学校?去教育部?还是去马华?》<br />
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<span>我答:《如果我是你,我会去学校,去教育部,去马华,去民联,去</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>任何地方,直到有双语资格的老师来教导我的孩子为止。》</span></span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/162194343826499" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Tue, 04 Jan 2011 17:49:17 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Wednesday, 05 January 2011 at 09:49">05 January at 09:49</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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Apple是周杰伦,太吊遭人恨但确实才华横溢。<br />
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Blackberry是陈奕迅,我行我素。<br />
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Nokia是刘德华,无明显缺点,一直很努力。<br />
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Motorola是黄秋生,有经典但总出烂片。<br />
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Samsung是吴镇宇,产品有那么一点邪气。<br />
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Siemens是张国荣,是传奇,但已经OVER。<br />
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HTC是郭富城,总想证明自己,可每次都一样</span></span></div></span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Tue, 04 Jan 2011 21:15:20 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Wednesday, 05 January 2011 at 13:15"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/116432048429621" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">05 January at 13:15</a><br />
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几年前,曾上演过真人版的“向左走,向右转”。<br />
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在一个朋友生日聚会,遇到了一个很有感觉的R小姐。<br />
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原来,她就住在我租的房子隔壁。。。block,<br />
每天我730上班,走斑马线过对面车站等18号车,往东<br />
而她830上课,过天桥,同一个巴士站等81号车,往西。<br />
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终于一次,我睡迟了,天桥碰巧又在维修,<br />
我们就在缘分的斑马线的遇上了。<br />
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“原来你就住这里?”开始了我的话题。<br />
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“这里是我男朋友的家”她的回答结束了我的情迷。<br />
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几米没有骗人,骗人的是缘分。<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span>我的朋友CH LEE说 “拥有更多的时间去玩乐,思考,面对挫折的孩子,在情绪管理和面</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>对大环境变迁这两个课题上,显得比较自主和处事能力高。身为教育</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>工作者的我,有责任把现实和未来社会的种种情况紧紧链接。决定未</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>来的应该是孩子们,不是我们,因为能够生存在未来的是孩子他们,</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>不是我们。”</span></span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/167910236586633" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Thu, 06 Jan 2011 02:03:27 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Thursday, 06 January 2011 at 18:03">06 January at 18:03</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> · <a class="uiTooltip uiStreamPrivacy" href="http://www.facebook.com/echok#" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; position: relative; text-decoration: none;"><img alt="Privacy:" class="img" height="10" src="http://static.ak.fbcdn.net/rsrc.php/yJ/r/izQe4GX_lA2.gif" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; cursor: move;" width="10" /></a><br />
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<span>昨天四个男同学的妈妈在场,两个男同学嚎啕大哭。其他男同学酷酷</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>坐在位子上,四个女同学玩得一样开心。<br />
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<span>今天,一个男同学嚎啕大哭,两个男同学有妈妈陪伴,眼泪汪汪。一</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>个男同学没有来。其他男同学酷酷做在位子上。四个女同学,玩得多</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>开心呵。<br />
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<span>我现在对付阿为的方法是:只负责叫他起床,其他的事情他自己照着</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>我写好的字条做,然后我自己就挂在网上,每五分钟就看着电脑的时</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>间报告,就算迟到了我也完全没有紧张的意思。只可惜的说一声:啊</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>,迟到了。也不骂他。<br />
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<span>最后阿为终于明白了,准备上学不是妈妈的事情,是自己的事情,所</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>以现在每天早上我都很轻松。</span></span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/116589731746806" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Thu, 06 Jan 2011 17:48:15 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Friday, 07 January 2011 at 09:48">07 January at 09:48</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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盖了电话,阿雍问:妈妈,毓雁阿姨在看戏的地方吗?</span></span></h6><form action="http://www.facebook.com/ajax/ufi/modify.php" class="commentable_item autoexpand_mode" id="u746589_1" method="post" rel="async" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/178738112159430" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Fri, 07 Jan 2011 02:01:14 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Friday, 07 January 2011 at 18:01">07 January at 18:01</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span>过去两个月有三个妈妈不约而同的问我:我的孩子三岁/四岁,想要</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>送她去全日制的幼儿园,你觉得怎样?<br />
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<span>老实说,我不是教育工作者,也不是这方面的专家。但我以一个妈妈</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>的身份来回答,是这样的:我不会送这么小的孩子去全日制的幼儿园</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>。原因是我觉得这样小的孩子,对妈妈还有依恋,而且他还需要我们</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>的陪伴。如果送到全日制的幼儿园,他每天只有三五个小时和我们在</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>一起,我觉得以一个这么小的孩子来说,是太少了。当然,孩子是你</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>的,你自己多观察,然后跟幼儿园的教育工作者讨论才下决定吧。<br />
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<span>这是我的回答。我想知道这里有教育领域的朋友能给点这个问题的意</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>见。因为我不确定我是对的。</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Fri, 07 Jan 2011 03:56:25 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Friday, 07 January 2011 at 19:56"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/142507005807885" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">07 January at 19:56</a><br />
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<span>当然,常常,我也幻想他们都不上大学,把他们念大学的钱都拿来让</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>我们四人环游世界,用最便宜的方式自助旅行三年,所得的会不会比</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>让他们读大学更多?我很肯定会。<br />
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<span>如果他们回来了,还是觉得念大学好,那么,念大学就一定对他们好</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>了。到时才去念吧。到时钱没了,请两兄弟自己想办法找钱念大学吧</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>。<br />
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今年新年的第一天,我应该写的稿都写完了,我在UPLOAD着我<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>的部落格的照片。去检查电邮,收到一封邀请写产品开箱文的信件。<br />
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吓,今年是我的部落格年和写产品开箱文年吗?</span></span></h6><form action="http://www.facebook.com/ajax/ufi/modify.php" class="commentable_item autoexpand_mode" id="u930535_15" method="post" rel="async" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/153111021405753" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Fri, 31 Dec 2010 16:44:50 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Saturday, 01 January 2011 at 08:44">01 January at 08:44</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><div class="text_exposed_root text_exposed" id="id_4d37c028102234710739661" style="display: inline;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span>在院子里汗如雨下的洗地时,在旁看了一阵的小女孩开口了:安娣,</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>你为什么不请一个KAKAK?<br />
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<span>很好,前几年是她的姐姐隔三几个月问一次这个问题,现在是妹妹。</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>她弟弟今年四岁,多两年就换她弟弟问了。<br />
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<span>看起来在村里没有KAKAK是很奇怪的事。这里好多户人家都有K</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>AKAK,因为请个KAKAK的所费不多。<br />
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<span>我笑答那个小女孩:如果我请KAKAK,我就不能去旅行了。要K</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>AKAK还是要旅行,我选择旅行啦。<br />
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<span>这当然只是事实的一部分,还有另一部分是,我实在不习惯有个陌生</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>人住我家呵。</span></span></div></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/177573172264022" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Sun, 02 Jan 2011 02:32:16 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Sunday, 02 January 2011 at 18:32">02 January at 18:32</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> · <a class="uiTooltip uiStreamPrivacy" href="http://www.facebook.com/echok#" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; position: relative; text-decoration: none;"><img alt="Privacy:" class="img" height="10" src="http://static.ak.fbcdn.net/rsrc.php/yJ/r/izQe4GX_lA2.gif" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px;" width="10" /></a><br />
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<span>我说,多十五分钟可以叫醒阿为,阿雍七点十五分醒都没问题。他没</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>趣走开,说:我要叫醒的是阿雍,不是阿为。<br />
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<span>她不放弃,还在讲:《在那个政府诊所。。。》我想起来了,是那个</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>无助的中国妈妈,一次我发现她不会听马来话,那个护士很不耐烦的</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>要跺脚了,我马上上前当翻译,她松了一口气。当天我问了她下次来</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>复诊的日期,请护士帮我订同一天,我们孕期最后两个月都是同一天</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>复诊的。对我来说,这是举手之劳,但我知道对她来说,这行动意义</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>重大。<br />
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<span>昨天下午带他去看医生,医生说:是手足口症。哇。手足口症,吓我</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>一跳。我问医生要怎么办?医生说,我给他止痛药。我说,就这样?</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>医生说,就这样。我说这样就能好了?医生说:是啊。五天就好了,</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>最久要七天也一定能完全好了。<br />
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<span>今天是第五天,他已经完全好了。但还是把他留在家里,费事他把病</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>去传给其他小朋友。所以,今天又打回原形,过着早上跟阿雍混,下</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>午跟阿为混的日子。</span></span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/185654948126946" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Mon, 03 Jan 2011 17:28:36 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Tuesday, 04 January 2011 at 09:28">04 January at 09:28</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">要出去执行一个超级任务了。很重要的任务噢。</span></span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Fri, 24 Dec 2010 16:01:41 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Saturday, 25 December 2010 at 08:01"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/180281315324662" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">25 December 2010 at 08:01</a><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><div class="text_exposed_root text_exposed" id="id_4d37c0351a0f32f40629109" style="display: inline;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">任务完成。但还没回到家。多两天才回家。<br />
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<span>刚才去买阿雍开学的用品,心里非常的不舍得。想起四年前要送阿为</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>上幼儿园,我心里也一样很不舍。<br />
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<span>孩子开始步入另一个阶段了,就表示,他和我日常的相处时间,是越</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>来越少了。<br />
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<span>养儿不外是如此,与他每天相处的时间,都是这不自觉的越来越少的</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>,到十七岁他到外地去读书,我是不是就变成那个每天思念孩子的妈</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>妈了呢。</span></span></div></span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/175767792456866" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Tue, 28 Dec 2010 03:57:23 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Tuesday, 28 December 2010 at 19:57"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">28 December 2010 at 19:57</span></abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">刚刚回到家没30分钟,现在,我家又来了十一位小朋友。</span></span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Wed, 29 Dec 2010 01:21:00 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Wednesday, 29 December 2010 at 17:21"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/183519878342514" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">29 December 2010 at 17:21</a><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><div class="text_exposed_root text_exposed" id="id_4d37c033f0f290464721095" style="display: inline;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span>阿为在回来的车上告诉我,说,妈妈,真巧,槟城,马六甲和吉打的</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>车牌都到Y。<br />
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开着车的我不明白他说什么,问:什么?<br />
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他说:槟城的车牌到PJY,吉打的到KCY,马六甲的到MBY。<br />
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我:吓?这样你都知道。。。</span></span></div></span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/186164974733198" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Wed, 29 Dec 2010 02:16:02 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Wednesday, 29 December 2010 at 18:16"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">29 December 2010 at 18:16</span></abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"> ·<br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span>阿雍从几个月大开始就是能坐着睡觉的小孩。他可以坐在电单车上熟</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>睡,叫也叫不醒,也能一边吃饭一边睡觉,当然,像这样在行走中的</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>车子上睡觉,更是小事一桩。。。</span></span></h6><div class="mvm uiStreamAttachments clearfix" data-ft="{"type":"attach"}" style="display: block; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-top: 10px; zoom: 1;"><div class="UIImageBlock clearfix" style="display: block; zoom: 1;"><a class="uiPhotoThumb UIImageBlock_Image UIImageBlock_MED_Image" data-ft="{"type":"media"}" href="http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=480820643194&set=a.68708653194.72077.784843194&ref=nf" style="border-bottom-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-left-style: solid; border-left-width: 1px; border-right-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-right-style: solid; border-right-width: 1px; border-top-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-top-style: solid; border-top-width: 1px; color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; float: left; margin-right: 10px; text-decoration: none;" title="阿雍从几个月大开始就是能坐着睡觉的小孩。他可以坐在电单车上熟睡,叫也叫不醒,也能一边吃饭一边睡觉,当然,像这样在行走中的车子上睡觉,更是小事一桩。。。"><img class="img" height="81px" src="http://photos-f.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs262.snc4/39437_480820643194_784843194_5864651_6752848_s.jpg" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; display: block; margin-bottom: 3px; margin-left: 3px; margin-right: 3px; margin-top: 3px;" width="121px" /></a><div class="UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_MED_Content fsm fwn fcg" style="color: grey; display: table-cell; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: top; width: 10000px;"><div class="uiAttachmentDesc" style="color: grey; word-wrap: break-word;"></div></div></div></div><div class="UIImageBlock clearfix" style="display: block; zoom: 1;"><i class="UIImageBlock_Image UIImageBlock_ICON_Image img sp_dxm2ym sx_34fe91" style="background-image: url(http://b.static.ak.fbcdn.net/rsrc.php/zA/r/dwEJFTlrnaC.png); background-position: 0px -35px; background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; display: block; float: left; height: 16px; margin-right: 5px; width: 16px;"></i><div class="UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_ICON_Content" style="display: table-cell; padding-top: 1px; vertical-align: top; width: 10000px;"><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=480820643194&set=a.68708653194.72077.784843194&comments" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Wed, 29 Dec 2010 02:43:29 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Wednesday, 29 December 2010 at 18:43"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">29 December 2010 at 18:43</span></abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #999999;"> </span><br />
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</span><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span>真危险。我本来是打算玩到最后一分钟才回来的,后来想到还是回来</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>准备开学比较从容。昨天晚上九点才想到开学前好像收到一张通告,</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>说明开学前要回校一天。嗯,是哪一天啊?去翻出来看。吓,就是明</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>天,多十一个小时后的明天。。。</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource"><abbr data-date="Wed, 29 Dec 2010 15:21:42 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Thursday, 30 December 2010 at 07:21"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/114875488585331" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">30 December 2010 at 07:21</a><br />
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</span><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">跟孩子挥别他的一个阶段,是甜蜜又多愁善感的。<br />
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<span>我需要一小段时间缅怀我与他们经历的甜美时光,然后就开始我接下</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>来的人生计划。<br />
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他们的人生一直往前走,我的也是。</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/141664159223904" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Wed, 29 Dec 2010 18:11:07 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Thursday, 30 December 2010 at 10:11"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">30 December 2010 at 10:11</span></abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #999999;"> </span><br />
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</span></div><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">我发现孩子有两种,一种是要打才会听话的,一种是讲道理的。<br />
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<span>会变成哪种孩子,原因是父母的管教方式和孩子的个性使然的化学作</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>用。</span></span></h6><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/174876125886532" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Thu, 30 Dec 2010 06:20:03 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Thursday, 30 December 2010 at 22:20">30 December 2010 at 22:20</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·</span></span></span></h6><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
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<span>2010年是我过得非常好的一年,阿为上了一年级,很自立了,阿</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>雍三岁,也不需全天候看顾着他,我过着相对清闲而快乐的日子。<br />
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<span>2011年,我生活中的育儿责任进入另一个jieduan,我开</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>始能花一点小时间来做自己喜欢的事情。<br />
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<span>挥手2010,面向2011,有缅怀(想念孩子这一年给我的喜乐</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>),有欣慰(孩子生命中的前三年我不缺席--我做到了),有期待</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>(期待2011是更好的一年)。<br />
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祝大家新年快乐!</span></span></div></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/119319861469729" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Thu, 30 Dec 2010 16:01:20 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Friday, 31 December 2010 at 08:01"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">31 December 2010 at 08:01</span></abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"> · <a class="uiTooltip uiStreamPrivacy" href="http://www.facebook.com/echok#" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; position: relative; text-decoration: none;"><img alt="Privacy:" class="img" height="10" src="http://static.ak.fbcdn.net/rsrc.php/yJ/r/izQe4GX_lA2.gif" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px;" width="10" /></a><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">我的FB友,李君如老师说:<br />
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《在我教过的学生里头,没有一个是要打才听话的!<br />
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我发现,不管尖子生或后进生,他们都喜欢语气温和的老师!对他们<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>越凶,反弹的力也就越大。》</span></span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/188914607791826" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Thu, 30 Dec 2010 19:18:04 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Friday, 31 December 2010 at 11:18">31 December 2010 at 11:18</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">如果說孩子是我們的精神導師,還看輕了他們,<br />
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<span>不時要我們回到當下,設定問題讓我們解決,並且強迫我們質疑自己</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>的假設。<br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span>《妈妈从不计较女儿的丈夫不帮她煮饭洗碗,婆婆总算监视儿子的媳</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>妇有没有煮饭洗碗。》</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999; font-size: 11px;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/149367925112265" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Mon, 20 Dec 2010 15:10:42 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Tuesday, 21 December 2010 at 07:10"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">21 December 2010 at 07:10</span></abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span>跟一个男生说起他哥哥的台湾女朋友,他说:还好啦,只是妈妈嫌她</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>来家里吃饭时不帮全家人洗碗。我觉得奇怪:这个女朋友一年只来一</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>次,算是客啊,不帮全家人洗碗很合理啊。难道你哥哥去她家会帮她</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>全家人洗碗吗?<br />
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<span>这个男生说:不会吧?哥哥在家吃饱饭就把碗放着给妈妈洗,外出吃</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>饭怎么可能帮人家洗全家人的碗?<br />
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<span>所以?你哥哥去人家的家都没有帮人家洗全家人的碗,为什么会你们</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>会要求人家洗你们全家人的碗?</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Mon, 20 Dec 2010 15:45:43 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Tuesday, 21 December 2010 at 07:45"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/149466948438085" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">21 December 2010 at 07:45</a><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span>神经医学上有一种疾病,至今仍旧令人感到沮丧难治者,多性硬化症</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>,其发生率与孩提时代摄取过多乳制品有关。流行病学研究显示,吃</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>人奶者极少见有罹患此病者。<br />
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<span>成年人糜烂溃疡性大肠炎,儿童经常发作的急性扁桃腺炎,慢性鼻窦</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>炎,淋巴腺发炎肿大,慢性中耳炎 ‥‥这些顽固且反复发作恼人的疾病,不论何种年龄层,只要单纯地</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>从饮食中剔除牛奶以及相关的乳类制品,短则或一个月,长则或三个</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>月,就可以得到非常神奇的改善与效果。</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999; font-size: 11px;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/150031971712161" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Mon, 20 Dec 2010 16:35:11 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Tuesday, 21 December 2010 at 08:35"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">21 December 2010 at 08:35</span></abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span>那天回家跟妈妈聊天。她告诉我,听我讲了那么多关于自闭症的问题</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>,她想起以前她的雇主有一个现在看来应该是自闭症的孩子,他不说</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>话,动作慢,他母亲就成天骂他不说话和反应慢,骂到二十岁左右,</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>这个男生自杀了。我听了非常难过,这个男生不是不要说话,是因为</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>他说不出,他懂很多,但就是说不出,他反应慢是因为感觉统合失去</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>联系。这样一个困在一个男孩躯壳的灵魂在那二十年来被辱骂被人看</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>轻,他终于亲手结束自己的生命。如果当时有多几个能理解他的人,</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>他的下场不至于如此。唉。</span></span></h6><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; 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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><div class="text_exposed_root text_exposed" id="id_4d37c03d0de4e4615763978" style="display: inline;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">每一次带孩子旅行回来,会累到一个星期不想说话。<br />
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<span>因为不是自己的孩子生病,就是同行的孩子生病,大部分的行程都是</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>陪孩子们在酒店房间哼哼唧唧的。<br />
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<span>不是盖的,这次旅程中,七个妈妈的孩子中,有十个患流感。最后第</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>二天,一个妈妈干脆隆重伤到脚,去医生那里隆重缝了八针。<br />
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<span>我忙写稿,忙带孩子出游,忙出版新书,忙家里的小事,好像账单,</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>家务,时间到了要喊孩子起床刷牙冲凉,忙读绘本给他们听,忙带他</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>们去游乐场。孩子头发长了要带他们去剪头发,忙给小儿子选幼儿园</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>,忙跟老朋友聚会,忙帮朋友订书选书,还有,忙帮一间古来的图书</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>馆做点小事。<br />
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连我自己都有点佩服起自己了。</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/139076979483731" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Wed, 22 Dec 2010 22:48:25 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Thursday, 23 December 2010 at 14:48">23 December 2010 at 14:48</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>也许我应该考虑去跟马来西亚铁道局和居銮火车站的咖啡店收广告费</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>了。。。因为很多人因为我在部落格提了几次,因此带孩子去乘火车</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>旅行和吃去居銮火车站吃烤面包和喝咖啡。。。<br />
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收不到广告费也就算了,干脆要他们请我当代言人也可。</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/171581632880212" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Thu, 23 Dec 2010 14:45:02 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Friday, 24 December 2010 at 06:45">24 December 2010 at 06:45</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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<span>《如果你们要鞭打XX,麻烦你之前打电话给我。他是我的心肝宝贝</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>,我花了很多心思和耐心执行【理由解释】,只要沟通方式得体,他</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>们是可以好好坐下来商量的。》</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/117163918352619" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Thu, 23 Dec 2010 23:00:06 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Friday, 24 December 2010 at 15:00">24 December 2010 at 15:00</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div></div></span></span></span></abbr></span></span></span><br />
</span></span></span></span></abbr></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></form>我的流金岁月http://www.blogger.com/profile/02040940295082066865noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915569676738055048.post-20255389305865767922011-01-19T21:48:00.000-08:002011-01-19T21:48:12.889-08:00面子书纪事251110 TO 081210<h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;">有人私下問我:孩子放假你掛在網上的時間好像比較少了?<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>我一到南部的村里住時,文化衝擊最大的其中一項是:在古來和士乃</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>這一帶的華裔銀行職員非常非常驕傲。我不明白他們驕傲什麼,不是</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>服務業嗎?不是要來服務我們嗎?驕傲什麼?我印象非常深刻的是,</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>我試過,幾次用英語交談,就得到非常好的待遇,用華語,那些銀行</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>職員給我非常難看的臉色,這是什麼態度?本來以為是個案,後來發</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>現不是,是很普遍的現象,不是一間銀行而已,是好幾間銀行的華裔</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>職員都這樣。我百思不解,我在吉隆坡時沒有這樣的遭遇。後來才發</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>現在小地方,銀行職員算是高級職員。是這樣的嗎?真的,在吉隆坡</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>時我沒有遇到這樣的問題。</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/164037863633655" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Wed, 24 Nov 2010 23:07:04 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Thursday, 25 November 2010 at 15:07">25 November 2010 at 15:07</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>在收拾書架,發現我書架上有三本鍾曉陽的《停車站借問》。而《哀</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>歌》沒見影子。是這樣的,以前我很愛借書給人,但常常借到一去不</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>回頭,所以喜歡的書常常買上幾本以防萬一。這兩本書我記得一次過</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>買三本的,結果前者去了都回來,後者去了都沒回來,失策。還有那</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>天看到曾毓林在找李碧華的《青蛇》,這本書當年我也買了三本,現</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>在,一本不剩。。。</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Thu, 25 Nov 2010 04:00:43 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Thursday, 25 November 2010 at 20:00"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/115455585187612" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">25 November 2010 at 20:00</a><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>阿為長大了。我剛才訓了他一頓,現在他自己一個人關在房間裡,聽</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>著歌。這就是為什麼我覺得一定要給孩子培養自己的愛好和給他們空</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>間,在他們沮喪的時候,有個疏解的方法,有個地方可去。人生這麼</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>長,他們遇到不如意的事情時,總要找到方法去處理。</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Thu, 25 Nov 2010 23:00:48 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Friday, 26 November 2010 at 15:00"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/120752947988850" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">26 November 2010 at 15:00</a><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>我在排着假期行程。排過來排過去。調過來調過去。嘆口氣。這假期</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>怎麼那麼短啊,六個星期怎麼夠用。。。</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Fri, 26 Nov 2010 20:56:46 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Saturday, 27 November 2010 at 12:56"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/172370449458942" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">27 November 2010 at 12:56</a><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>抄來的:</span></span></h6><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>男人幫孩子洗個屁股,檫個地板,洗個碗,買個菜,人家都會說:哇</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>,你幫你太太做家務,好男人!<br />
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<span>可是當女人外出賺錢,沒有人會說:哇,幫你老公外出賺錢養家,好</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>女人!<br />
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嗯,這是什麼道理呢?</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/134948429893316" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Fri, 26 Nov 2010 21:04:41 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Saturday, 27 November 2010 at 13:04">27 November 2010 at 13:04</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><br />
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抄來的</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>女人放工回家,躺在沙发休息一下,就会有人说:赚两个钱回来很大</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>吗?<br />
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<span>男人放工回来,躺在沙发休息一下,就会有人喊:爸爸回来了,不会</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>倒杯茶来吗?</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Fri, 26 Nov 2010 21:24:26 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Saturday, 27 November 2010 at 13:24"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/158838204159945" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">27 November 2010 at 13:24</a><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>到一個四歲左右的男孩拖著他大概一歲多的妹妹走,妹妹走不穩,</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>覺得害怕哭起來,又不會說,很委屈的被拖著走。爸爸走過來不由分</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>說賞了這個女孩一個大巴掌,啪的一聲好響,(我心抽一下,疼。)</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>可憐的妹妹大哭起來,那個哥哥笑笑在旁邊看,旁邊還有個女人要在</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>罵妹妹。我看到女人的肚子隆起,肚裡的胎兒應該有八個月大了。我</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>心裡想:這兩夫妻用這種方式帶孩子。。。生那麼多幹嘛啊。</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/127231184005133" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Sat, 27 Nov 2010 04:33:18 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Saturday, 27 November 2010 at 20:33">27 November 2010 at 20:33</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>說到為什麼我們社會普遍認為家務和孩子事是女人的事情,我的FB</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>友,Kay Goh說:《 这可能跟文化有关,参观过挪威的一所中学,学校有厨房,车房,木</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>工房等等。男生女生都必修烹饪和女红课。那些孩子是从小就被灌输</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>男女平等的观念。东方一些很传统的家庭,到现在都还会说“哎呀,</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>厨房是属于女人,男人不进厨房等等“ 的很男权主义话”。》對,問題就出在教育這部分。</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/164141803621362" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Sat, 27 Nov 2010 14:32:52 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Sunday, 28 November 2010 at 06:32">28 November 2010 at 06:32</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>昨天回到娘家,白天好好睡了三个多小时,然后晚上九点就睡着了。</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>前些日子应该是累坏了,是自己不知道。啊,你知道,只有在娘家才</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>能被这样被宠爱啊。</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Sun, 28 Nov 2010 19:29:22 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Monday, 29 November 2010 at 11:29"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/110612982342018" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">29 November 2010 at 11:29</a><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>抄来的:《當一個人悲傷得難以自持的時候,也許,他不需要太多的</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>勸解和安慰,訓誡和指明,他需要的,只是能有一個人在他身邊蹲下</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>來,陪他做一隻蘑菇。 》</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/106582852746319" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Sun, 28 Nov 2010 19:37:26 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Monday, 29 November 2010 at 11:37">29 November 2010 at 11:37</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;">这种龟速的网咖,还要一个小时两元。。。还是下线去。</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/165185483516869" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Tue, 30 Nov 2010 18:53:54 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Wednesday, 01 December 2010 at 10:53">01 December 2010 at 10:53</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>刚刚收到李系德先生给我的《左雍右为》写的序。我看了有点战战兢</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>兢,他把我写得太好了,好到跟本不像在写我。会找李先生写序,是</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>因为他是第一个认为我也许能写育儿文章的人。以前我写单身情事,</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>写城市女子的生活,写爱情婚姻,没有人想过我能够写那么C9的题</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>材,他是第一个想到,也愿意给我机会尝试的。谢谢他。</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/162577007116909" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Wed, 01 Dec 2010 02:36:09 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Wednesday, 01 December 2010 at 18:36">01 December 2010 at 18:36</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>回娘家已经四天三夜了,每天固定睡两个小时多的午觉,然后晚上九</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>点就睡着。算起来每天最少睡十一个小时。我想不是我厉害睡,而是</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>因为一向都OVERLOAD,只是自己不知道而已。</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Wed, 01 Dec 2010 04:31:48 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Wednesday, 01 December 2010 at 20:31"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/136026066451958" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">01 December 2010 at 20:31</a><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">我在一個朋友的POST上留言,他很驚訝說:《你沒有理我很久了<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>,今天怎麼會理我?》喂,先生,你試試看去ADD一千多人,看看<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>是否能看完你的塗鴉牆,現在我每次都花十分鐘左右看公共塗鴉牆,<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>能看多少是多少,剛好哪個朋友留言我就看到哪個留言,其他的,都<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>沒看到。要不然我一天最少要花六個小時才看得完我所有朋友的ST<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>ATUS。。。我就不相信有人玩FB玩到這樣瘋狂的。花六個小時<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>看公共塗鴉牆。瘋啦。</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Fri, 19 Nov 2010 23:11:04 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Saturday, 20 November 2010 at 15:11"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/171373172892308" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">20 November 2010 at 15:11</a><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">真好看的球賽,為李宗偉的拼搏精神拍手,也為林丹打了一場好球而<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>拍手。當然,也為我喜歡的米斯本拍手。真是一場好球。</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/125692717492201" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Sun, 21 Nov 2010 06:18:23 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Sunday, 21 November 2010 at 22:18">21 November 2010 at 22:18</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">有個朋友在新加坡工作,住新山家,每個月換馬幣當家用給媽媽。媽<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>媽告訴他自己有收集新幣的習慣,所以每次他總是會順手給三幾百元<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>新幣給媽媽。幾年過後有一天,媽媽要跟阿姨去新加坡遊玩,朋友心<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>想:這麼多年給媽媽收集的新幣應該有上七八千了吧?所以沒有給媽<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>媽新幣。後來回來時阿姨說他不好,為什麼沒有給媽媽新幣去新加坡<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>用。他告訴阿姨情況,也把媽媽跟阿姨借的數額還給阿姨。這件事情<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>之後他暗暗留意,終於發現為什麼了:他那愛打扮又愛上PUB又賺<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>得不多的兄弟,每個月花超過自己賺,居然沒有手頭緊的問題。</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/154933067884983" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Sun, 21 Nov 2010 14:29:38 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Monday, 22 November 2010 at 06:29">22 November 2010 at 06:29</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">有人來ADD我,我會去看我們共同的朋友,如果全是媒體界的,那<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>麼我知道這人是媒體界的。如果全是我的親戚朋友,那麼我知道他可<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>能是我親戚的孩子。如果全是某個論壇的,那麼我知道他應該是混那<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>兩個論壇的。如果全是政治界的朋友,我知道他應該很關心政治。如<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>果大部分是特殊孩子的家長,那麼我猜測這人家裡可能有特殊孩子,<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>如果大部分是佛教界的朋友,那麼這人很可能也是佛教途。可是我偶<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>爾會發現一些比較奇怪的人,我們的共同朋友有我媒體的朋友,我的<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>親戚,佛教界的朋友,特殊孩子家長的朋友,政治界的朋友,還有論<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>壇的朋友,我想這樣的人和我一樣,交朋友沒有計劃,是口味很雜的<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>人。</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Sun, 21 Nov 2010 15:58:31 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Monday, 22 November 2010 at 07:58"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/143003249084388" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">22 November 2010 at 07:58</a><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">從阿為放假後,我每天要講上十次:《阿為阿雍,媽媽一次只能聽<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>一個人講話,請你們一個一個來好嗎?》有一次連他們的爸爸也加進<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>來,天呀,我怎樣在一個時間聽三個人說話?他們難道不知道媽媽只<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>有一對耳朵嗎?</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/113271688738313" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Mon, 22 Nov 2010 22:08:26 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Tuesday, 23 November 2010 at 14:08">23 November 2010 at 14:08</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">早上有事到一個托兒所去。還有很多孩子在托兒所。園長倒自己的米<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>說:這不行啊,孩子應該多跟父母相處,整個假期留在這裡很可憐啊<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>。回的時候剛好一個父親把大概兩歲多的孩子送來,孩子不肯留下,<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>一直要跟父親,哭的聲音都啞了,幾個大人抓着她。她眼睜睜看著自<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>己的父親上車離去,站在原地看著車的背影大哭。我拉著兩個孩子上<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>車,也哭了。</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Mon, 22 Nov 2010 23:05:46 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Tuesday, 23 November 2010 at 15:05"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/157656100944371" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">23 November 2010 at 15:05</a><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">送孩子去托兒所的父母分兩種,一種真的很無奈,很想與孩子相處,<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>苦於生計啊!這類父母每次一到時間就衝去接孩子。<br />
另一種是,怕孩子煩,到了時間也不去接,去逛街,享受一番再說,<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>週末時,希望托兒所也開,他們繼續把孩子送到托兒所去,他們繼續<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>享受生活,我知道的好幾個媽媽,沒上班,但孩子送去托兒所,每天<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>!我聽到都暈。</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Tue, 23 Nov 2010 16:04:43 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Wednesday, 24 November 2010 at 08:04"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/173177389368229" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">24 November 2010 at 08:04</a><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">看到一段關於原生家庭的文字:《《《‘缺爱’ 跟 ‘渴望爱’ 的女生大多来自父母感情不好的家庭;有者父母离异抑或父亲从不与<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>女儿有良好的亲子互动(未必代表父亲不爱女儿)。这类环境长大的<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>女生很容易就对别人一丁点的善意诠释为爱的表现,很容易就对号入<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>座,很容易就对男生投怀送抱。 即便后来结束了一段遇人不淑的感情,下一段感情还是一直重演遇人<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>不淑的戏码。一直重演。。。》》》</span></span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/104843616255609" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Tue, 23 Nov 2010 20:39:52 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Wednesday, 24 November 2010 at 12:39">24 November 2010 at 12:39</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="font-size: small; line-height: 14px;">自從放假,我家常常有七八個到十幾個村里的孩子來玩。這些孩子來<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>了就玩得滿頭大汗,然後一個一個進來問我要水喝,我必須放下我的<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>工作去倒水給他們喝,有些還會提醒我:《安娣,我要滿滿的。》有<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>些喝了一杯說:《安娣,我還要多一杯。》幾天過後,我實在受不了<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>要一直起身倒水給他們和要煮多幾煲水的麻煩,昨天他們回的時候我<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>提醒他們:下次要來請自己帶水來。今天來的孩子,幾乎人手一瓶水<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>。。。今天阿為不在,他去骨牌營了。現在我家還有快二十個小孩在<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>玩。我這裡已經變成村里的免費托兒所了。</span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/109554312446455" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Tue, 23 Nov 2010 21:37:27 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Wednesday, 24 November 2010 at 13:37">24 November 2010 at 13:37</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> · <a class="uiTooltip uiStreamPrivacy" href="http://www.facebook.com/echok#" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; position: relative; text-decoration: none;"><img alt="Privacy:" class="img" height="10" src="http://static.ak.fbcdn.net/rsrc.php/yJ/r/izQe4GX_lA2.gif" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px;" width="10" /></a><br />
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</div><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;">龙应台说:《有一次,我跟菲利普在看台湾的电视新闻,我边看边骂<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>,说怎么这么差的新闻编辑,这么偏颇,简直不堪忍受。他冷冷地说<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>,去改造他呀,别只骂不做。他觉得我的行动力不够。然后我们就会<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>谈到知识分子和行动者之间的界线。》看,这是一个十多岁少年的看<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>法。想想我们十八岁的少年在做什么?讲得出这样的话吗?会有这样<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>的想法吗?</span></h6><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/144776148903692" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Tue, 09 Nov 2010 17:09:38 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Wednesday, 10 November 2010 at 09:09">10 November 2010 at 09:09</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> · <a class="uiTooltip uiStreamPrivacy" href="http://www.facebook.com/echok#" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; position: relative; text-decoration: none;"><img alt="Privacy:" class="img" height="10" src="http://static.ak.fbcdn.net/rsrc.php/yJ/r/izQe4GX_lA2.gif" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px;" width="10" /></a></span><span class="UIActionLinks UIActionLinks_bottom" data-ft="{"type":"action"}" style="color: #999999;"> · <button class="like_link stat_elem as_link" name="like" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: initial; background-image: none; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-color: initial; border-left-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-top-style: none; border-width: initial; color: #6d84b4; cursor: pointer; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; overflow-x: visible; overflow-y: visible; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; width: auto;" title="Like this item" type="submit"><span class="default_message" style="display: inline;">Like</span></button> · <label class="comment_link" style="color: #6b84b4; cursor: pointer; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: text-top;" title="Leave a comment">Comment<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>大扫除中,阿雍喊饿,我叫阿为去村里的杂货店买个包给阿雍吃。阿</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>为不肯,说:不要,等下我买了包回来你把灰尘都吸完了,我没得吸</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>。。。唉,这小子什么时候这么爱做家务了。</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/142722435778705" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Tue, 16 Nov 2010 17:35:52 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Wednesday, 17 November 2010 at 09:35">17 November 2010 at 09:35</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"> ·<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>阿为学钢琴,他坚持不练琴,我就让他不用练琴,他每个星期都学得</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>很愉快。我想对钢琴这回事,他有潜能,爱弹琴,但还没有热情。他</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>学游泳,老是要我押上车才肯动,动了还要哀嚎:我不要去学游泳。</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>。。虽然一到泳池看到他的教练他就抛开我往他的教练奔去。我还搞</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>不懂他对游泳这件事有什么看法。至于创意机器人,常常是在前两天</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>就在我耳边碎碎念,念到当日一起睡午觉时还要一再提醒我:妈妈,</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>你不要睡过头,如果我睡过头,你记得把我直接抱上车。。。</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/162772037094395" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;"><abbr data-date="Tue, 16 Nov 2010 22:23:31 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial;" title="Wednesday, 17 November 2010 at 14:23">17 November 2010 at 14:23</abbr></a></span><span class="uiStreamPrivacyContainer" style="color: #999999;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="color: black; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span class="messageBody" style="line-height: 14px;"><span>朋友婉蜜书说:《A也好,100%也是,金牌也罷,它代表的是你</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span><span>今天到達了一個高點,但是,它不能決定你能走得多遠。在人生的兢</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: block; float: left; margin-left: -10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span>技場上,我們不能只有攀高的決心,也得要有長跑的毅力。》</span></h6><span><span class="uiStreamSource" style="color: #999999;"><abbr data-date="Wed, 17 Nov 2010 15:03:05 -0800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-width: initial; color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" title="Thursday, 18 November 2010 at 07:03"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/echok/posts/166945763336277" style="color: #999999; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">18 November 2010 at 07:03</a><br />
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</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">我想,这应该是贴心的阿张交待的。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">心里感触很深,于是,想写一篇文章来记载我的这位朋友。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">(</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">一)</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">认识阿张是很偶然的事情。当时我在一家特刊出版社工作,为刊物招广告。我约了阿张的搭档,但他的搭档临时有事请,请阿张接见我。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">当时阿张没有应酬我刊登广告,但因为我们聊得很愉快,就一直有联系,之后他的朋友,阿业,阿安,阿祥,阿伦,表哥(是阿业的表哥,结果变成所有人的表哥了。)和我的朋友珍妮花,一行八人就成了好朋友,这些朋友陪我走过一段长长的单身日子,我后来出版的第一本书《单身俱乐部》里,大部分都在写我的这段日子和我的这些朋友。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">阿张和这几个在还不会说话就认识了的朋友一起买下一栋组屋的同一层楼,成了紧密的邻居。我后来也干脆在他们楼下也买下一间,大家成了上下层的邻居。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">这六个男生很照顾我,我家里的灯坏了,水喉塞了都会找他们解决。我们也常在周末晚上一起消磨时间,吃晚餐,去喝酒,唱</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">Karaoke</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">。当然,某些节日,如圣诞节,情人节,冬至,中秋节,甚至国庆日这类普天同庆的日子更是我们互相取暖的时节。所以我在很长的单身日子都不觉得寂寞或遗憾,就是因为有这群朋友的陪伴。我们一起度过很多美好的时光。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">(二)</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">我记忆深刻的一件事情,是有一次,阿张跟我说起他刚刚完成了一个高级公寓的工作(他是室内设计师,当时跟朋友合作一间装修公司),他很满意。我说我要看我要看。这一天是星期五。他说好啊好啊,我明天拿钥匙带你去看。星期六我上半天班,我们说好第二天一点左右见面,到那间公寓时大概是一点半。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">星期六早上十一点多,他打电话来说要处理一些要事,今天不能去看,下个星期再带我去看。我说好。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">那天晚上的夜报头条,是淡江一间公寓倒塌的新闻。这在当时是非常大的新闻,报上说这间公寓倒塌的时间是星期六下午一点多。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">我和他都吓青了脸。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">(三)</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">我和这群朋友一起混了四年,之后大家越来越忙,越来越忙,他们忙着为他们的事业打拼,我忙着佛教活动,交了一群佛教界的好朋友,分给他们的时间比较少,但一年也总会在几个节日我们约好碰面,每年我们都一起捞鱼生。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">一直到我搬离这间屋子为止。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div align="right" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in; text-align: right;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">之后的两年我们就只在每个新年捞生一次。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">然后,我就结婚,离开吉隆坡了。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
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</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: #d52a33; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">(四)</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">阿张患肝癌的事情是阿业告诉我的。当时应该是</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.5pt;">2005</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">年。我知道了马上联络我们的共同朋友,珍妮花,一起去他的家探他。当时他刚开完刀在家休息,精神很好,跟我们聊了很多。一样爱说笑话,他说本来以为医生会帮他开一个马赛地的图形,怎么知道医生只开个</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;">LEXUS</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">的图形,失望。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">他的哥哥也在场,他是家里排行最小的,有好几个哥哥姐姐</span><span style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">.<span lang="ZH-CN">他年纪很小就失去父母,所以他的哥哥姐们都非常疼爱他。这样的事情发生,想必大家都非常难过。我们也在那一天看到他那美丽温柔的太太。</span></span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">阿张自己很懊恼,因为肝癌的症状在前一年已经显现了,他老是生病,抵抗力非常差,朋友们都叫他去做个全身检查,但当时他的事业正火红,忙得不得了,就一直拖着没去检查,没想到拖了一年,问题就变得如此不可挽回。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">他跟伙伴去南部谈生意,回程时肚子痛,紧急送医,马上送进马附近专科医院,做了很多检验,检查出是肝癌第四期,问医生要怎么办?医生说:这样的情况没有办法开刀了,你还是回去等日子吧。无奈只得付了一大笔医药费,回吉隆坡。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">回到吉隆坡,在家想想不甘心,就去另一间专科医院进院检查,一个星期,再花了一大笔钱,答案还是:没办法了,没办法开刀了,你还是回去等时间吧。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">最后通过他的家人的协助转进一间中央医院,由区域权威的肝脏科医生为他开刀。出院时他准备了好些钱,付账单时吓坏了:吓?动那么大的手术,还住这么些天,居然只需五百元?</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">这次见面很愉快,我们见到他时,他很开朗,笑声很多。后来我才知道,我们见他时是他开刀之后最好的情况。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
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</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">这之后我每年都打一两次电话给这些朋友,每次跟他们问起阿张时,他们都说很好啊,大家都很好啊,阿张也很好啊。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">现在想起,应该是阿张交代他们不要让我担心,知道我听到他不好一定会去看他。他一直是这样贴心的朋友,虽然觉得不忍,但也只能接受他的好意。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">去年这每逢新年跟朋友通电话的习惯因为太忙而没能进行,</span><span style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">2011<span lang="ZH-CN">年刚开始,我打电话给阿业,跟他聊了一阵,要挂电话时,习惯的问候所有的朋友,问到阿张时,他沉默五秒,说,你还不知道?我心里有不好的预感:什么事情?</span></span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">阿业说:上两个星期才跟朋友去</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.5pt;">NILAI</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.5pt;">NILAI</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">,我心里想:不是吧?</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.5pt;">NILAI</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">?阿张真的过世了吗?</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">阿业说:是啊,去拜他,两周年了。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">我心一沉:不是说没问题了吗?</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">阿业说:问题很多。开刀之后阿张又活了三年零八个月,这段日子过得很辛苦。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">我心里真的很难过,他是一个很好的人。他一直为朋友着想,也常去孤儿院老人院关心那些孤苦的人们,也常在经济上极力帮助他们。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
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</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">知道他得肝癌,其实已经有心理准备他可能会离去,但这几年来的追问换回的回答都是他很好,所以一直认为他能够挺得过五年,可是他却在三年多之后离开。那天我还打他的电话号码找他,电话通了没人接。没想到电话的主人已经离开这世界。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">从小失去父母的他,是先行一步去找他的父母求取曾经失去的疼爱了吗?我衷心希望他在另一个世界,过得好好的,如果有机缘投胎做人的话,希望他能做个健康的人。当然,这娑婆世界很苦,也许在西方极乐世界听阿弥陀佛讲经说法,修福修慧是更好的去处。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">谢谢你,阿张,谢谢所有因为你而得到的喜乐,也谢谢你和你的朋友陪我走过一段我的单身生活。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black; font-family: SimSun; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: SimSun;">希望你安息。</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>我的流金岁月http://www.blogger.com/profile/02040940295082066865noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915569676738055048.post-26013998841527519222011-01-05T02:19:00.000-08:002012-12-25T17:45:58.792-08:00话说我的朋友--阿张(2)<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #d52a33; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">(四)</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">阿张患肝癌的事情是阿业告诉我的。当时应该是2005年。我知道了马上联络我们的共同朋友,珍妮花,我们一起去他的家探他。当时他开刀出来了,精神很好,跟我们聊了很多。一样爱说笑话,他说本来以为医生会帮他开一个马赛地的图形,怎么知道医生只开个LEXSUS的图形,失望。</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">他的哥哥也在场,他是家里最小的,他有好几个哥哥姐姐,当天在场的好像是他的三哥。他因为年纪很小就失去父母,所以他的哥哥们都非常疼爱他。这样的事情发生,想必他的哥哥们都非常难过。我们也在那一天看到他那美丽温柔的太太。</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">他自己很懊恼,其实之前一年已经有症状了,他老是生病,朋友们都叫他去做个全身检查,但当时他的事业正火红,忙得不得了,就一直拖着没去检查,没想到拖了一年,问题就这么严重了。</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">他是跟伙伴去新山谈生意,回程时肚子痛,紧急送医,马上送进马六甲专科医院,住了两个星期,检查出是肝癌第四期,问医生要怎么办?医生说:这样的情况没有办法开刀了,你还是回去等日子吧。无奈只得付了二十多千的医药费,回吉隆坡。</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">最后通过他的三哥知道了士来央中央医院,由区域权威的肝脏科医生为他开刀。出院时他准备了一些钱,付账单时发现:吓?动那么大的手术,还住这么些天,居然只需五百元?</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">这次见面很愉快,我</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">们见到他时,他很开朗,笑声很多。后来我才知道,我们见他时是他开刀之后最好的情况。</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">这之后我每年都打给这些朋友,每次跟他们问起阿张时,他们都说很好啊,大家都很好啊,阿张也很好啊。</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">现在想起,应该是阿张交代他们不要让我担心,知道我听到他不好一定会去看他。他一直是这样贴心的朋友,虽然觉得不忍,但也只能接受他的好意。</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">去年因为阿雍还很粘人,每年新年跟这帮朋友通电话的习惯没能进行,今年新年,我打电话给阿业,跟他聊了一阵,要挂电话时,习惯的问候所有的朋友,问到阿张时,他沉默五秒,说,你还不知道?我心里有不好的预感:什么事情?</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">阿业说:上两个星期才跟朋友去NILAI。</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">NILAI,我心里想:不是吧?NILAI?阿张真的过世了吗?</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">阿业说:是啊,去拜他,两周年了。</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">我心一沉:不是说没问题了吗?</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">阿业说:问题很多。开刀之后阿张又活了四年多,这四年过得很辛苦。</span></span><br />
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</span></span>我的流金岁月http://www.blogger.com/profile/02040940295082066865noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915569676738055048.post-64491033997519699832011-01-04T18:28:00.000-08:002012-12-25T17:45:35.138-08:00话说我的朋友--阿张(1)昨天跟一个旧日朋友通电话,才得知阿张过世了。是在两年前。我惊讶的问:为什么没通知我们?阿业说:当时兵荒马乱,没能记得通知你。<br />
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我想,这应该是贴心的阿张交待的。<br />
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心里感触很深,于是,想写一篇文章来记载我的这位朋友。<br />
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认识阿张是很偶然的事情。当时我在一家家具特刊出版社工作,为刊物招广告。我约了阿张的搭档,但他的搭档临时有事请,请阿张接见我。<br />
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当时阿张没有应酬我刊登广告,但因为我们聊得很好,就再约,之后他的朋友,阿业,阿安,阿祥,阿伦,表哥(是阿业的表哥,结果变成所有人的表哥了。)和我的朋友珍妮花,一行八人就成了好朋友。<br />
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我后来出版的第一本书《单身俱乐部》里,就有几篇写到他的单身故事的。<br />
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他和这几个还不会说话就认识了的朋友一起买下一栋组屋的同一层楼,成了紧密的邻居。我后来也干脆在他们楼下也买一间,大家成了上下层的邻居。<br />
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这六个男生很照顾我,我家里的灯坏了,水喉塞了都会找他们解决。我们也常在周末晚上一起消磨时间,吃晚餐,去喝酒,唱KALA OK。当然,某些节日,如圣诞节,情人节,冬至,中秋节,甚至国庆日这类普天同庆的日子更是我们互相取暖的时节。所以我在很长的单身日子都不觉得寂寞或遗憾,就是因为有这群朋友的陪伴。我们一起度过很多美好的时光。<br />
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我记忆深刻的一件事情,是有一次,他跟我说起他刚刚完成了一个高级公寓的工作(他是室内设计师,当时跟朋友合作一间装修公司),他很满意。我说我要看我要看。这一天是星期五。他说好啊好啊,我明天拿钥匙带你去看。星期六我上半天班,我们说好第二天一点左右见面,到那间公寓时大概是一点半。<br />
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星期六早上十一点多,他打电话来说要处理一些要事,今天不能去看,下个星期再带我去看。我说好。<br />
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那天晚上的夜报头条,是淡江一间公寓倒塌的新闻。这是非常大的新闻,报上说这间公寓在今天下午一点多倒塌。<br />
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我和他都吓青了脸。<br />
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我和这群朋友一起混了四年,之后大家越来越忙,我也忙着佛教活动,交了一群佛教界的好朋友,分给他们的时间比较少,但一年也总会在几个节日碰面,每年都一起捞鱼生。<br />
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一直到我搬离这间屋子为止。我们就只在每个新年捞生一次。<br />
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然后,我就结婚,离开吉隆坡了。我的流金岁月http://www.blogger.com/profile/02040940295082066865noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915569676738055048.post-55093596913870425432011-01-01T00:17:00.000-08:002011-01-12T03:51:05.929-08:002010年尾之旅二:北马夜班火车游(五)马六甲7晚上,另一群朋友来了。她们因为刚到达,有点累。所以没有出来吃晚餐,由我和薇屏跟孩子们出来吃,然后打包给其他朋友。<br />
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</div><div>味道有点奇怪的西瓜汁加柠檬。</div><div></div><div></div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIF-TbFt2IglFyh4KS1HkrTgBGFvpVn1x1gyh8XixfqhTtENqWEuTi-JVfZ6ap_HsD0VLUDqYrwoKBvNApOkIKaYCHUSe_PVr1gZgzzCcvczoEBJA1Uih6_6PJSyRI0Dwh5O-MS8K42Do/s1600/dec2+418.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557123306353535778" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIF-TbFt2IglFyh4KS1HkrTgBGFvpVn1x1gyh8XixfqhTtENqWEuTi-JVfZ6ap_HsD0VLUDqYrwoKBvNApOkIKaYCHUSe_PVr1gZgzzCcvczoEBJA1Uih6_6PJSyRI0Dwh5O-MS8K42Do/s320/dec2+418.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 320px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 213px;" /></a></div><div>娘惹的鲁猪肉。</div><div><br />
</div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiD969E1Oe8TbW_pV5HUfcLt3LFVTueyCXLEC2w1TUYqUFFJRi6BkoeNK17DeA0UGtOlVASLHhrLFuW5DbxrPAkiLP40b0q6-7cyxwExET1KtxwHUc5GsDT9zCRtF8gzDDwzYbpJyxSkxk/s1600/dec2+420.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557123304815544114" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiD969E1Oe8TbW_pV5HUfcLt3LFVTueyCXLEC2w1TUYqUFFJRi6BkoeNK17DeA0UGtOlVASLHhrLFuW5DbxrPAkiLP40b0q6-7cyxwExET1KtxwHUc5GsDT9zCRtF8gzDDwzYbpJyxSkxk/s320/dec2+420.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 213px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 320px;" /></a></div>拍坏了的蕹菜。<br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxceOt1n3D9wMe96pnLh6vAvjm-V_0VYg83whzniF_r_pVOzDsMhfADjk3K4ui0aCBlI2a5s7uz9uhBpUuMlBAbp7zEA6qomANa793EIuKHvdeEfp8-8GmFiBV0dGfJCOd5nmjF-Z27dk/s1600/dec2+421.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557131985713387938" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxceOt1n3D9wMe96pnLh6vAvjm-V_0VYg83whzniF_r_pVOzDsMhfADjk3K4ui0aCBlI2a5s7uz9uhBpUuMlBAbp7zEA6qomANa793EIuKHvdeEfp8-8GmFiBV0dGfJCOd5nmjF-Z27dk/s320/dec2+421.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 213px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 320px;" /></a>我超爱的SAMBAL苏东臭豆。<br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCv6Nkkp7bdyP6oqG6U833wjqP7-LQN-eKWua4RxZH9UWy-3gRDqsYPRM46tLleJ_0WxGF27dKD6eZUB1mH2I0ZC4t32kxy8w7vg_U2upe03Vtdn7DeuDLB15RTPv29TkLUvVDcm1qCDY/s1600/dec2+422.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557131973989601090" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCv6Nkkp7bdyP6oqG6U833wjqP7-LQN-eKWua4RxZH9UWy-3gRDqsYPRM46tLleJ_0WxGF27dKD6eZUB1mH2I0ZC4t32kxy8w7vg_U2upe03Vtdn7DeuDLB15RTPv29TkLUvVDcm1qCDY/s320/dec2+422.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 213px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 320px;" /></a>这个是娘惹OTAK。老实说,我比较喜欢吃麻坡的OTAK。。。<br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGpV6wjLIwNxtjdi-gSQYdWSWYBXquOz-hT8_E7XV8LCmJTnidjKdy_v9tmszEDT_58urBQ3RbxjmBhE8Mj1oF8hM2g2uTY-rbHgAkIZFY21Bjozd6epYoAeeAlYxsz7F_KRJHzHbmxkA/s1600/dec2+423.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557131969493370242" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGpV6wjLIwNxtjdi-gSQYdWSWYBXquOz-hT8_E7XV8LCmJTnidjKdy_v9tmszEDT_58urBQ3RbxjmBhE8Mj1oF8hM2g2uTY-rbHgAkIZFY21Bjozd6epYoAeeAlYxsz7F_KRJHzHbmxkA/s320/dec2+423.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 213px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 320px;" /></a>第三天,要离开马六甲了。拿相机去拍民宿后面的马六甲河。<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnQUxNgGJ1smKBneMrwULR8hIx7AdmYNAxhZpIu7lsYqOVkM_wC_WW622UB5zMpE2FgYaJWEquFRdwJjP0UUTaGBEPvb1TuQW32SD3pBSyfMQqJR0G8ZA5-RVXNb7eHUqa5354trcjqLs/s1600/dec2+432.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557132980637433138" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnQUxNgGJ1smKBneMrwULR8hIx7AdmYNAxhZpIu7lsYqOVkM_wC_WW622UB5zMpE2FgYaJWEquFRdwJjP0UUTaGBEPvb1TuQW32SD3pBSyfMQqJR0G8ZA5-RVXNb7eHUqa5354trcjqLs/s320/dec2+432.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 213px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 320px;" /></a>当年林院长那不太听话的学生,还好二十年后没有干下什么打家劫舍的勾当。。。<br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-OL-_Ek7JLxJsihP3QA1AuOGj08s2MHrw3dwRpWJpl_97xx88VNCXvSaVoLnJRpn-wxvqAJWzssocGCuBJH55uG5_zwwtdX14NfvvRDVe-sVMduq8wjZd60mquWpC5wYKkzGbAmHH5II/s1600/dec2+467.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557132973323602034" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-OL-_Ek7JLxJsihP3QA1AuOGj08s2MHrw3dwRpWJpl_97xx88VNCXvSaVoLnJRpn-wxvqAJWzssocGCuBJH55uG5_zwwtdX14NfvvRDVe-sVMduq8wjZd60mquWpC5wYKkzGbAmHH5II/s320/dec2+467.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 240px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 320px;" /></a></div>我的流金岁月http://www.blogger.com/profile/02040940295082066865noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915569676738055048.post-15888070318624893442010-12-31T23:38:00.000-08:002011-01-12T03:50:52.593-08:002010年尾之旅二:北马夜班火车游(五)马六甲6<div>在树下聊得差不多了,就换个地方,喝杯茶。这个地方很有特色。不错不错。不过因为我脱队一阵子,结果走了很多冤枉路才到这里。<br />
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这里的食物看起来也不错。</div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjL0BjciqqWSO3VWAcss9g10HGTWYEqAukU6lpR0ldTBxgnWwGQo_sB50855LQN11OLXzA5lpe-UdXnPp2L4G9hyLfDnVsQIBOt2-XuQn0bK1eWDP2ZJFTblGEqra5CU3ypTYlKdKFcUpI/s1600/dec2+406.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557003375679491794" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjL0BjciqqWSO3VWAcss9g10HGTWYEqAukU6lpR0ldTBxgnWwGQo_sB50855LQN11OLXzA5lpe-UdXnPp2L4G9hyLfDnVsQIBOt2-XuQn0bK1eWDP2ZJFTblGEqra5CU3ypTYlKdKFcUpI/s320/dec2+406.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 213px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 320px;" /></a></div><div>两个好奇宝宝。。。</div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhoG9QIS2bZcPiY80tgZjk535jNNAyiJ4AUuj_GhoelycoPAgu8Fb6zb1OKDnr4arMld_i1iYIYPga_VmgYpe_wimc4KeCwGWMa7I7M45L5RzP7C30jqGsnwtRWa2j4HP6d7z8P0gg8c2o/s1600/dec2+412.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557123328910543202" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhoG9QIS2bZcPiY80tgZjk535jNNAyiJ4AUuj_GhoelycoPAgu8Fb6zb1OKDnr4arMld_i1iYIYPga_VmgYpe_wimc4KeCwGWMa7I7M45L5RzP7C30jqGsnwtRWa2j4HP6d7z8P0gg8c2o/s320/dec2+412.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 320px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 213px;" /></a>原来此店有点来头。。</div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgseL8X83PMBN5bAO2vlngnnvkSDGPhdea3LQ3wbqo2SxZ_KAP4gjfJT7Nt9BKJTIcDa2IgCipVbvs9WZIj57JgITh3tR30pbgCO8_IXNzQssQ47ydAH8sPRA26goZ5ymPOcBMIqP5INSw/s1600/dec2+413.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557123316656392178" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgseL8X83PMBN5bAO2vlngnnvkSDGPhdea3LQ3wbqo2SxZ_KAP4gjfJT7Nt9BKJTIcDa2IgCipVbvs9WZIj57JgITh3tR30pbgCO8_IXNzQssQ47ydAH8sPRA26goZ5ymPOcBMIqP5INSw/s320/dec2+413.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 320px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 213px;" /></a><br />
面包。<br />
<div><div></div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0zmoGsnOz6gwcGh-ueoDGOf2FRqJ7lvFBh7cCDCzGNgDhRxupCQrBl_0ZVvNmL7x0c4G0XMLFDc5MwHBLGTH27jyn6nce1WuJsV3TGXwNUnhwE_CVnjqq7npnSsrHiP6S5ggoSb2DoJA/s1600/dec2+407.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557121089446600802" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0zmoGsnOz6gwcGh-ueoDGOf2FRqJ7lvFBh7cCDCzGNgDhRxupCQrBl_0ZVvNmL7x0c4G0XMLFDc5MwHBLGTH27jyn6nce1WuJsV3TGXwNUnhwE_CVnjqq7npnSsrHiP6S5ggoSb2DoJA/s320/dec2+407.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 213px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 320px;" /></a>都是小食。</div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjz0EIYtmyPhXnE4WN2i-Xl5y0Sx8LVPxAOUR3IcDBJuNGVxNz2sg9g3xH-CJe5BMQ87ZQqy7ftWc0QLWXLjKb1mjJ1BS_Zi9ZY9ljz7dBxuLKOBxT-frq_h34a-ljR9P9EPEE6NfC19Gc/s1600/dec2+408.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557121085827122562" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjz0EIYtmyPhXnE4WN2i-Xl5y0Sx8LVPxAOUR3IcDBJuNGVxNz2sg9g3xH-CJe5BMQ87ZQqy7ftWc0QLWXLjKb1mjJ1BS_Zi9ZY9ljz7dBxuLKOBxT-frq_h34a-ljR9P9EPEE6NfC19Gc/s320/dec2+408.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 213px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 320px;" /></a></div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjc0sIoYnqrpsU8Ry_Pz11OkOhmxlKadxLgkxcnjVNoPhRtxn01cwKvNf4BB3V2ig-TFHUNLrPpyK_T7_0MbrTV8zSvcNBpia0cB1uKraffRuhgPUbD4VrWQTRvW_l3-hy62ws6PW5mMV4/s1600/dec2+409.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557121076903823762" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjc0sIoYnqrpsU8Ry_Pz11OkOhmxlKadxLgkxcnjVNoPhRtxn01cwKvNf4BB3V2ig-TFHUNLrPpyK_T7_0MbrTV8zSvcNBpia0cB1uKraffRuhgPUbD4VrWQTRvW_l3-hy62ws6PW5mMV4/s320/dec2+409.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 213px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 320px;" /></a>有个天井让孩子们活动。</div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtXheNPdm-eGDypzDGmu6mHgXR0o8Qvpml7tCufl-i7nHlyzNRCjuTZXGQ30Fl67hw_kEw5ZlpIEqsKVSjaRR4jKp_-kBswAVbktNGMeXbB8-RiGEXMAs-V85z9JQxqerX4cjYp0R2SW4/s1600/dec2+410.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557121075824717442" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtXheNPdm-eGDypzDGmu6mHgXR0o8Qvpml7tCufl-i7nHlyzNRCjuTZXGQ30Fl67hw_kEw5ZlpIEqsKVSjaRR4jKp_-kBswAVbktNGMeXbB8-RiGEXMAs-V85z9JQxqerX4cjYp0R2SW4/s320/dec2+410.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 213px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 320px;" /></a>这是大家的签名。很喜欢这一天的聚会。不知道什么时候再聚?嘿。名单上有从南到北的记者,老板娘,还有老师们。只有我是全职妈妈。</div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj67skPo_3N4ZRkvhWFUPCoNJdYbROjWX8XpuxFC1_ODDUqxp7eytzTRIQx9D4VtzzSETWkYTUtzFEd2HPpAKe9b-GBbtk701jqpFyo5OENSOsg2lQRDASPOgd-Qyzp12E11uZcRRuCbgk/s1600/dec2+411.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557121068923489410" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj67skPo_3N4ZRkvhWFUPCoNJdYbROjWX8XpuxFC1_ODDUqxp7eytzTRIQx9D4VtzzSETWkYTUtzFEd2HPpAKe9b-GBbtk701jqpFyo5OENSOsg2lQRDASPOgd-Qyzp12E11uZcRRuCbgk/s320/dec2+411.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 213px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 320px;" /></a></div><div></div></div></div><br />
在微雨中把毓雁送到车站去,她要去吉隆坡了。她老是这样,风尘仆仆的。<br />
<div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqNXzMbdXkExJdDJqzheUlLTRGcXte4l5STyU4e5cR_AVYG9awL2AK4nWSvAN5CsZaG1kfmtMmwZ_EeOWCpn63pMXqAa9uGcCfomE42UT0Ys7l50CQQw-6rgJlDYkcmnfMnP68B5O88dM/s1600/dec2+416.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5557123312896834130" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqNXzMbdXkExJdDJqzheUlLTRGcXte4l5STyU4e5cR_AVYG9awL2AK4nWSvAN5CsZaG1kfmtMmwZ_EeOWCpn63pMXqAa9uGcCfomE42UT0Ys7l50CQQw-6rgJlDYkcmnfMnP68B5O88dM/s320/dec2+416.jpg" style="cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 213px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 320px;" /></a></div><div></div>我的流金岁月http://www.blogger.com/profile/02040940295082066865noreply@blogger.com0